Comments on: [cancer] A brief note on stress http://www.jlake.com/2009/11/12/cancer-a-brief-note-on-stress/ Jay Lake's Official Web Site Thu, 09 Feb 2012 00:58:08 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Jay http://www.jlake.com/2009/11/12/cancer-a-brief-note-on-stress/comment-page-1/#comment-7526 Jay Fri, 13 Nov 2009 02:17:08 +0000 http://www.jlake.com/?p=10250#comment-7526 Thank you Thank you

]]> By: Cole Bitting http://www.jlake.com/2009/11/12/cancer-a-brief-note-on-stress/comment-page-1/#comment-7524 Cole Bitting Thu, 12 Nov 2009 20:54:49 +0000 http://www.jlake.com/?p=10250#comment-7524 thelittlefluffycat was nice enough to put a link to my site in her comment. I came on over. Congratulations on finding the wherewithal to exercise. That such a testimony to your strength of character. Three thoughts. Be patient with your process. You body and mind can only chew up so much distress at a time. Keep talking. Let other people be your 'interpersonal sociobiological regulator.' In other words, they can chew on some of your distress for you. Third and last. You might find perspective if you thing about your anguish in two parts - you and your pain. Separate yourself from the pain if only to recognize that part of healing is healing that wound. You work your process not 'on you' but rather, 'on the pain.' Be well. thelittlefluffycat was nice enough to put a link to my site in her comment. I came on over.

Congratulations on finding the wherewithal to exercise. That such a testimony to your strength of character.

Three thoughts. Be patient with your process. You body and mind can only chew up so much distress at a time.

Keep talking. Let other people be your ‘interpersonal sociobiological regulator.’ In other words, they can chew on some of your distress for you.

Third and last. You might find perspective if you thing about your anguish in two parts – you and your pain. Separate yourself from the pain if only to recognize that part of healing is healing that wound. You work your process not ‘on you’ but rather, ‘on the pain.’

Be well.

]]> By: Meran http://www.jlake.com/2009/11/12/cancer-a-brief-note-on-stress/comment-page-1/#comment-7521 Meran Thu, 12 Nov 2009 18:12:35 +0000 http://www.jlake.com/?p=10250#comment-7521 Thank you for that link, kitty Meran Thank you for that link, kitty
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]]> By: thelittlefluffycat http://www.jlake.com/2009/11/12/cancer-a-brief-note-on-stress/comment-page-1/#comment-7520 thelittlefluffycat Thu, 12 Nov 2009 15:04:29 +0000 http://www.jlake.com/?p=10250#comment-7520 http://www.goodfables.com/blog/the-lessons-of-dog-poop.html http://www.goodfables.com/blog/the-lessons-of-dog-poop.html

]]> By: thelittlefluffycat http://www.jlake.com/2009/11/12/cancer-a-brief-note-on-stress/comment-page-1/#comment-7518 thelittlefluffycat Thu, 12 Nov 2009 14:05:56 +0000 http://www.jlake.com/?p=10250#comment-7518 Maybe, *maybe*, it being an enemy whose face you've seen is making it a little easier. There will be, for good or ill, less unknowns this time. Knowledge ups the ability to plan, planning can reduce that unreasoning, paralyzing fear. Let's hope so. Maybe, *maybe*, it being an enemy whose face you’ve seen is making it a little easier. There will be, for good or ill, less unknowns this time. Knowledge ups the ability to plan, planning can reduce that unreasoning, paralyzing fear.

Let’s hope so.

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