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[personal|events] On the cusp between JayFest and JayCon

Yesterday evening was JayFest. Which we celebrated in style. It was well-attended, and I think some books got sold. No photos yet, on account of continuing computer issues hereabouts, but there will be. Much fun was had by all, and somehow John Pitts wound up with the Genre car afterwards.

Today is kind of a cusp day. Enjoying the company of [info]fjm. John will be by later, and this evening is a loose group dinner for early and pre-JayCon attendees at Cartlandia, my almost-local food cart pod.

Tomorrow, of course, JayCon XIII with all attendant madness. Which is incidentally Joyce Z.’s real birthday, so she’ll be celebrating there as well.

In other news, today is [info]the_child‘s last day of school. Shortly she will be a freshman no more. Another reason to celebrate.

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[cancer] Field notes from Cancerland, JayFest edition

JayFest

JayFest is tonight at Powell’s Cedar Hills. Some of the folks arriving today are staying over for JayCon, including J.A. Pitts and [info]fjm. From about lunchtime today until after dinner Sunday it’s going to be one nonstop trip to crazytown around here. Next week will be a dead calm sea by comparison.

Story Sale

In the department of good news what cheers me, [info]seanan_mcguire and I have placed our collaborative novella “Hook Agonistes” with Subterranean Online. Go, us!

Estate Matters

As of yesterday, the house refinance has funded. I’m done with that, at an advantageous interest rate and a reduced cash flow requirement. This week, we have met with the accountant, the financial planner and the attorney about various matters as well. Sometime in the next week or so, I will write out in detail the kinds of planning we’re doing, including whys and wherefores. Just don’t have time right now. And, frankly, it’s overwhelming.

Daye Jobbe

I am in the process of leaving work permanently on disability. I have a lot to say about this, but I believe I shall wait until we’re all the way through the process so I can comment from that perspective. My employer continues to be extraordinarily supportive of me in this process, as does my boss, as well as the members of my work group. This does have some fairly staggering implications in terms of me receiving reduced cash flow from disability insurance while seeing my healthcare costs push up by 350% in shifting to COBRA. Again, more on this later when all the ducks have been enrowed.

Regorafenib Side Effects

My not-so-slow side into debilitation continues apace. I am now wearing cotton gloves almost all the time, including in my sleep. Also thick hiking socks over my silky bamboo socks, to cushion my feet. We have bought a new chair that gives me good elevation of the extremities, as well as a ‘zero gee’ posture to deal with the significant back pain which is emerging as a result of me walking with an odd gait due to the foot pain. I am also experiencing swelling in various body parts, including my feet and my scrotum. (That last is no joy, let me assure you.) The day to day stuff is driving me nuts. Yesterday I almost had a meltdown because I could not uncap a pen. Also, I am getting stupider. I can tell this because my performance at Sudoku has declined noticeably in the past two weeks. I use that as one of my basic cognitive self-checks. I’ve also been making an increasing number of stupid logistical mistakes. And my sleep cycle is very messed up. I woke at 2:15 am this morning, finally giving up at 3:00 am — this on top of a 10:00 pm bedtime. So, yeah…

JayCon

Meanwhile, there’s JayCon XIII on Saturday. I’ll be doing my best to enjoy the heck out of all the fuss and bother. Hope you can make one or more of the events between now and then.

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[personal] The week goes on

Not a lot of big doings to report. Plenty going on in my writing life, but it’s either administrivia or stuff-not-ready-to-be-announced. Day Jobbery has been busy. This is convenient, as I am in the Omaha office this week. Been seeing a lot of old friends while I’m here. It’s fun to introduce Lisa Costello to this part of my life, and the people in it.

I’ve been working in Omaha (in a remote sense) since 1999. Over the past fourteen years, I’ve made literally a hundred trips to this city. Kind of weird when I think about it. This has been my home away from home.

Working a lot on paving the way for the life changes in progress. Those are financial, medical, emotional, business and personal changes. And, of course, ultimately mortal changes. These days I’m so caught up in the details that sometime it’s a surprise to remember what I’m really doing.

My actual 49th birthday is tomorrow. We’re having a dinner for me here in Omaha. We fly home Friday, where I have some medical stuff in the afternoon, then my family birthday dinner Friday night. Saturday is the birthday party for [info]mlerules, for which I am planning to make my heart attack potato salad [ jlake.com | LiveJournal ]. That of course presumes my problems with my hands and feet will allow me to cook, which may be a major issue.

Next week I see the oncologist, the attorney, the accountant and the financial planner. Plus JayFest and JayCon XIII. And my very dear friend [info]fjm comes from England to visit me. And, and, and…

So the week goes on.

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